You're the new guy in the office, or the woman promoted to a management position. You've got to make your way; make your mark. You have to be a team player; approachable, helpful and friendly, without getting walked on. How, you might ask, how in world can I do this?
I'm glad you asked. Here are 6 Ways to Earn Respect at Work.
1. Don't Be A Know-It-All. No one likes the guy who has all the answers, especially when some of them are wrong. Even if you DO know all the answers keep them to yourself unless it's appropriate.
2. Be Honest. No one respects a liar. Tell the truth, always. Be kind, but truthful. This should go without saying but, unfortunately, some people have trouble with honesty.
3. Listen. Really listen. When someone is talking, don't think about what you're going to say next. Pay attention to what the speaker is saying. Ask questions when she's done. If you listen to people they feel valued and, in return, will value you.
4. Carry Your Own Weight. Be someone people can count on to do his part. Slacking rarely engenders respect.
5. Don't Get Involved In Office Politics. Sometimes it's impossible to avoid the internal machinations in the office but stay out of the posturing and positioning. Be your own woman and stand on your merits, not the favor of others.
6. Stay Clear Of Drama. No exceptions. No matter how juicy that gossip is, no matter how annoying John in accounting may be, stay away from drama. Stay above the fray. Some might think you're not 'part of the gang' but they will respect you.
These six tips might not guarantee a corner office and a seat on the Board of Directors but they do ensure you will maintain your dignity and self-respect and gain the respect of others.
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